When looking for a venue we were at first a little dubious as neither of us are from Dorset. We needed to find a venue that was accessible to our darling Aunty Mary, who is wheelchair bound. Her attendance was our reason for planning our wedding in Dorset, and we were determined to find the perfect place.
Our aunt and uncle suggested a few places. There was something special about Kingston Country Courtyard. The views in particular are absolutely stunning, looking out over rolling countryside, the beautiful ruins of Corfe Castle and much to our surprise a steam train puffing along in the distance on the Swanage Railway. It was rather like stepping back in time, in the best way possible!
My mother’s family come from India and so we decided in homage to her past we would bring an Indian vibe to the wedding through colour and our outfits. My bridesmaids wore beautiful multicoloured sarees (Aarti Sarees, London). I couldn't resist a traditional English gown for the ceremony, (Tilly Mint, Fleet. Dress ‘Caitlyn’ by MGNY) I teamed this with Indian jewellery and later changed into an Indian lehenga, (full skirt and cropped long sleeve top) in beautiful embroidered florals with corals, blues, golds and greens. My little flower girls wore brightly coloured Salwaar Kameez, (bejewelled tunics and trousers.) The boys wore navy suits with varying jewel coloured ties.
I am very lucky that my lovely mum, Chrissie Wilkinson is a very gifted florist. She arranged all the flowers for us, which was very special. My bouquet has been dried, and others were left on the graves of those we love who sadly couldn't be there on our big day.
The barn at Kingston Country Courtyard is beautiful. It is not like other barns, the cool grey stone gives it an entirely different look. It it simple; and left us with a total blank canvas. Whilst shopping for sarees in Southall, the ‘little India’ of London, I came across some beautiful multicoloured embroidered parasols. I had the vision of suspending this from the ceiling of the barn - the effect was amazing. We teamed this with bright table cloths, lots of candles, lanterns, draped fabrics. Mostly we wanted a super bright, happy day.
The ceremony itself took place at St. Mary’s Chapel, at Lulworth Castle. We wanted the balance of a grand, sweeping castle setting and the relaxed, cool vibe of the barn for later on. We were lucky to have ‘Gospel Touch’ gospel choir sing, we went for a Sister Act vibe which was beyond joyful!
Back at the barn we had a mix of amazing canapés, and in keeping with the groom’s Irish/Welsh background we opted for bangers and varying types of mash. Our puddings were a mix of our favourites, peanut butter brownies, pavlova and cheesecakes. All were made by Kingston Country Courtyard and tasted amazing. In the evening we ate a lot of cheese, that KCC sources for us.
The bonus feature of this location is the adjoining B&B which we had exclusive use of. Our immediate wedding party could all stay and be fed which was amazing. Bobbi and Lara who run KCC were integral in the planning for our wedding. They were super helpful, knowledgeable and patient with us planning from a distance. The staff at the Courtyard were extremely helpful and friendly, they went above and beyond to help us out. I can’t believe our big day was a year ago, we wish we could do it all again.